Happiness and Sadness

Happiness and sadness are twins. They walk hand in hand. We must learn to embrace each of them for what they are, to harness our inner happiness and to shake off our sadness when it is time.

happy and sadWhen you spend a lot of time talking about happiness, one can forget that sadness has value, too.  One thing I have always told people is that it is OK to mourn a loss. It is not just “normal”, but it is necessary.

What is not necessary is to remain in a rut of sadness and self-pity.  One needs to mourn, then push the sadness aside and get on with making the most of this wonderful world we live in.  The object of our mourning needs to be transformed from a sadly-missed part of our present to a wonderfully-remembered part of our past.

There is an interesting article on happiness versus sadness in Newsweek right now.  Interestingly, the article makes a case for happiness, but not too much of it over the long run.  Here is a quick excerpt:

On a scale from 1 to 10, where 10 is extremely happy, 8s were more successful than 9s and 10s, getting more education and earning more. That probably reflects the fact that people who are somewhat discontent, but not so depressed as to be paralyzed, are more motivated to improve both their own lot (thus driving themselves to acquire more education and seek ever-more-challenging jobs) and the lot of their community (causing them to participate more in civic and political life). In contrast, people at the top of the jolliness charts feel no such urgency.

Of course, “successful” is an interesting word. The happiest people might just consider themselves to be more successful, having reached the most happiness possible.

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2 Responses to Happiness and Sadness

  1. elinor says:

    Hi happy guy !

    I just dicovered your happyguy site and blog and laughed my way all through the instant gratification article (that’s the keyword i found you through) … absolutely brilliant … I’m doing research for a book proposal for an book of sensual ( and happy ! ) soulfood that i am in the process of writing … keep up the good work, I love it !

    yours sincerely

    elinor barbier

  2. FindingHappiness says:

    Hello everyone,

    I totally agree with what you Happy Guy. Sadness and Happiness are part of everyone’s life; and in both cases we need to handel them in a positive and constructive way.

    I have published a website recently that talks about Happiness in Life, and I kindly invite everyone to visit it.

    Here’s the link: http://www.webng.com/Finding/index.html

    Thank you for your website Happy Guy, and keep on posting please :)

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